Being shy can be a very frustrating experience and you can find times when you are completly lost at what to do. As i stand and look back over the years there are many things i wish would have done otherwise. But i also see how long i have come, going back to my younger days and look how i dealed with it then and how i deal with it now makes me feel some kind of calm. Challenge your comfort zone once in a while and you can overcome most of the shyness.
Some days its harder to put that feeling away it just sneak up on you and when you realise its back its to late. Days like that it can be nice to have a secure shoulder to lean on, someone you know wont hold you down for your feelings. Insteed helps you overcome it so next time you manage it by your one.
I have been lucky to have that and im greatful for that.